Wisdom can be hard to find, especially when thinking about and dealing with other people. Fortunately for us, God is wise and offers to share His wisdom with us. Read Psalm chapter 111.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; A good understanding have all those who do His commandments; His praise endures forever.
Psalms 111:10 NASB
Seeking God, no matter the circumstances is where wisdom starts for us. As we continue to follow Him and seek after Him, that is how wisdom grows. Are we seeking the source of wisdom?