Christian Devotional – September 25, 2019

Lead yourself. As you read through most leadership books, you will find an emphasis on the importance of a leading yourself first and foremost, before you can lead any one else. Read Proverbs 25.

Dealing with Authority – Proverbs 25:1-10

These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah, transcribed. It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, But the glory of kings is to search out a matter. As the heavens for height and the earth for depth, So the heart of kings is unsearchable. Take away the dross from the silver, And there comes out a vessel for the smith; Take away the wicked before the king, And his throne will be established in righteousness. Do not claim honor in the presence of the king, And do not stand in the place of great men; For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” Than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen. Do not go out hastily to argue your case; Otherwise, what will you do in the end, When your neighbor humiliates you? Argue your case with your neighbor, And do not reveal the secret of another, Or he who hears it will reproach you, And the evil report about you will not pass away.
Proverbs 25:1‭-‬10 NASB

The way we interact with people in authority is very telling about our own attitudes and ambitions. If we are only in it to gain stuff for ourselves, we will seek people in authority to try to gain favor with them for our own personal gain. Proverbs here guards us against that mind set. We must be careful how we conduct ourselves when we are around people in authority so that we are truly reflecting the wisdom that God desires us to have.

Our Words – Proverbs 25:11-15

Like apples of gold in settings of silver Is a word spoken in right circumstances. Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise reprover to a listening ear. Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest Is a faithful messenger to those who send him, For he refreshes the soul of his masters. Like clouds and wind without rain Is a man who boasts of his gifts falsely. By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded, And a soft tongue breaks the bone.
Proverbs 25:11‭-‬15 NASB

Likewise, the words that we speak also tell others of our attitude. Are we reflecting the love and wisdom of Christ through the words that we speak to others? Would others describe the words that we speak to them as apples of gold in settings of silver?

Our Actions – Proverbs 25:16-22

Have you found honey? Eat only what you need, That you not have it in excess and vomit it. Let your foot rarely be in your neighbor’s house, Or he will become weary of you and hate you. Like a club and a sword and a sharp arrow Is a man who bears false witness against his neighbor. Like a bad tooth and an unsteady foot Is confidence in a faithless man in time of trouble. Like one who takes off a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar on soda, Is he who sings songs to a troubled heart. If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; For you will heap burning coals on his head, And the Lord will reward you.
Proverbs 25:16‭-‬22 NASB

What we do should be an exact replica of what we say. If we are using wise words as in the section before, then our actions will follow suit. Do our actions reflect God’s wisdom to other people, and are they a direct reflection of the words that we speak?

Leading Ourselves – Proverbs 25:23-28

The north wind brings forth rain, And a backbiting tongue, an angry countenance. It is better to live in a corner of the roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Like cold water to a weary soul, So is good news from a distant land. Like a trampled spring and a polluted well Is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked. It is not good to eat much honey, Nor is it glory to search out one’s own glory. Like a city that is broken into and without walls Is a man who has no control over his spirit.
Proverbs 25:23‭-‬28 NASB

Everything that we do, our words, our actions, that the way we interact with authority, will all be and reflection of how we are leading ourselves. Do we have the restraint needed to appropriately deal with difficult and trying situations? Do we hold ourselves to the highest standard just as God holds us to the highest standard? How effectively do we lead ourselves is crucial question to ask because we will never lead others farther then we have already led ourselves.

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